Eighty percent of the time people dont loose their Job because of technical incompetence, but because of relational incompetence...they dont't know how to get along with other People. If you master the three instructions that James gives, the likelihood of that happening to you will go down to just about zero.
1. BE QUICK TO LISTEN!:...By stayin calm and refusing to react, you gain insight and respect! " A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control" (Proverbs 29:11).

2. BE SLOW TO SPEAK~: If you talk too much or too fast, here are three tips to slow you down: (a) Stop! Just stop talking. Inhale. Count 1 to 10 within yourself. Excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. (B) Practice not interuptining. Allow the other Person to continue what they're saying until they're through. (c) Ask yourself: Why am I talking too much? is it insecurity? Anxiety The need to control? A desire to impress? The reason most of us tey to convince, impress or control others is because we have a hard time trusting God to work things out, considering the economics nature of the country so beign afraid of what might happen if you don't talk or contribute to the issues in the offices or neigbourhood, which would later backfire on you e.g. beign called Mr. Too Know... In other words ' Our talk issue, is a trust issue'.
3. BE SLOW TO ANGER#: If you observe the first two principles, you'll tend to come out right on number three. It'll just happen. You can make progress by applying these three facts and you can start Today. And if you do it consistently Year after year you'll get to the end of your life and say to yourself, "I'm so grateful that I took the wisdom of God sriously". You'll become wiser every blessed Day and gain much opportunity...while not proofing so hard or too know/ on your dialogue and speech in the offices, neighbourhood, etc.